Ghanaian men don’t listen when it comes to what women want during sex – Moans and Cuddles guests.
What women desire when it comes to sex is an ongoing discussion. Many women say when it comes to sex, men have no desire to listen to what women want or need to make the process more enjoyable for both parties.
This assertion was made by the panelists on the second episode of Ghanaweb’s Sex and Relationship program Moans and Cuddles.
According to the all-women panelists, the common thing that they find hinders women from reaching orgasm with their partners is their inability to hear them in the process.
They alluded to the fact that the manly ego of most make makes it difficult for their partners to tell them what to do to make the lovemaking process easier on both of them. They said the idea that a woman would like to direct them on what to do is unheard of.
Na’na Yaa, a member of the panel said, “You think women are not talking? Women are talking the men aren’t listening. Let a wife start initiating sex plenty, the husband will now be asking, who have you been talking to blab la bla…”
To add to the submission, Akosua Sakyi-Ahyekum said men thinking they know all and their inability to take it well when women tell them their sexual frustrations also contribute to the problem.
“Men don’t listen because they feel they know it all, they have the ego. Why are you telling me I am not satisfying you”, she added.